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Providing Elder Care: Covering the Cost of Home Care, Assisted Living & Other Options

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

aging woman with caregiverOne of the most common questions I get asked is “How can I get care for my aging parent and how much will it cost?”

The answer generally depends on these factors:

  • What kind of elder care does the older person need or want?
  • What are the available options for providing the needed elder care?
  • How much do the different options cost?
  • What are the options for paying for the desired type of elder care?

These are important questions to consider. If your aging parent seems to need help, it’s imperative to find out what are your options for providing the needed support. And finances do often determine how a family proceeds with arranging elder care.

And even if your aging parent doesn’t need help now, they very well might in the future. So it’s also reasonable to plan ahead, and consider how elder care might be provided, if/when it becomes needed in the future.

Now, the truth is that most older adults don’t need much assistance from others. But research shows about 70% of older adults do end up needing some form of “senior care,” for a time ranging from a few months to several years.

So in this article, I’ll share the key things to know, about options for elder care and how to pay for it. Specifically, I’ll cover: [Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles, Uncategorized

7 Common Brain-Slowing Anticholinergic Drugs Older Adults Should Use With Caution

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Want to keep your brain — or the brain of someone you love — as healthy as possible?

Then it’s essential to know which commonly used medications affect brain function.

In this article, I’ll go into details regarding a type of medication that I wish all older adults knew about: anticholinergic drugs.

 

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: alzheimer's, brain health, dementia, medications

9 Types of Issues to Address When Helping Older Parents

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Aging Parents To Do List

Most older adults don’t need much help from others.

In fact, many of them are quite busy assisting others and otherwise contributing to their families, communities, and/or workplaces.

But of course, many older people eventually do need some help from others, especially if they live into their 80s, 90s, or beyond. After all, only a minority of people transition from being fully independent to deceased, with no intervening period of needing assistance.

(Wondering how to get an older person to accept help? That’s covered here: 6 Steps to Take When Aging Parents Need Help – Even if They’re Resisting.)

When an older person does start to need help, it tends to be close family members — assuming the person has family —  that step in: spouses, adult children, siblings, nephews or nieces, grandchildren, and so forth. In fact, family members are by far the number one source of “long-term care supports and services” for older adults.

Sometimes providing this eldercare support can be fairly straightforward: a little help with transportation, or arranging for some assistance with shopping or household chores.

But in other cases, family members find themselves having to take on quite a lot. This is often due to health issues affecting the older person’s ability to remain independent and manage various aspects of life.

Some situations that commonly bring this on include:

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Filed Under: Announcements, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: aging parents, family caregiving

3 Ways to Prevent Injury From a Fall
(Plus 3 Ways That Don’t Work as Well as You’d Think)

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

elderly person falling hip fracture

Worried about falls in an older person?

You’re right to be concerned, especially if the older person has already experienced a fall. Research suggests that falling once doubles your chance of falling again.

And falls, as everyone knows, can cause life-changing injuries. The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reports that:

  • One out of five falls causes a serious injury such as broken bones or a head injury
  • Each year at least 300,000 older people are hospitalized for hip fractures
  • More than 95% of hip fractures are caused by falling, usually by falling sideways
  • Falls are the most common cause of traumatic brain injuries

For these reasons and more, preventing falls is a major focus of preventive care for older adults, and is a big part of what we do in geriatrics. (Learn more about how we do this in this article: Why Older People Fall & How to Reduce Fall Risk.)

But if we want to protect older people from the potentially devastating consequences of falls, it’s not enough to help them reduce falls.

We also need to think about how we can reduce the likelihood of injury from a fall.

In this article, I’ll share with you three approaches that can help reduce fall-related injuries.

Then I’ll address two other approaches that are sometimes tried, but are less likely to help.

3 ways to prevent fractures and other injuries related to falls 

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles

8 Great Gift Ideas for Older Adults & Family Caregivers

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

It’s getting to be that time of the year: the season when many of us start looking for a thoughtful gift to give to an older loved one.

I’ll be honest: I’m not much of a shopper and it’s not my style to give physical gifts just for the sake of doing so. 

But I do think it can be wonderful to give something that brightens a person’s day. 

And it’s even better when a gift is practical, useful, or otherwise helps an older person make the best out of life.

One of my favorite resources, when it comes to identifying useful items to help with age-related challenges or caregiving, are the lists put together by DailyCaring.com.

They have a great list of 50 top gift ideas for seniors, and another terrific list of gifts related to Alzheimer’s and dementia.

In this article, I’ll share my list of eight gifts that can help older adults cope with common late-life challenges. 

Four are for older adults in general, and then four are especially useful for those living with Alzheimer’s or a related dementia.

Four great gift ideas for older adults:

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles

Is Your Aging Parent OK?
What to check & how to talk about it

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Have you been getting worried about your aging parent, or wondering if they are ok continuing to live as they are?

Maybe they’ve been mostly okay but now you’re spotting some problems with memory, such as forgetfulness or asking the same questions repeatedly. Or maybe you’ve noticed trouble with driving, keeping up the house, managing stairs, or paying bills.

Some aging parents simply begin to seem more withdrawn. Others start leveling accusations at others, claiming someone took or moved something, or acting paranoid.

When families notice these types of changes, it’s often really hard to know what to do next. How do you know if they really need help or not, and what kind of help to get? And what do you do if they refuse to discuss it, or get mad when you bring it up?

Since this is such a common dilemma for families, I’ve recorded a video, explaining exactly what you can do, if you’ve noticed some worrisome changes in your parent and are trying to figure out what to do next. Here’s how to know if your aging parent needs help, and how to talk to them about your concerns.

 

This video covers:

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Filed Under: Aging health, Featured, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles, Managing relationships

3 Ways Home Blood Pressure Monitors Help Older Adults

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

how to check BP at homeIf I had to recommend one key piece of healthcare equipment that older adults & caregivers should have at home, it would be this: a good home blood pressure (BP) monitor.

Why? Because BP measurements (and pulse measurements, which machines check at the same time) are an incredibly useful tool when it comes to assessing and optimizing an older person’s health and well-being. This is true even for those older people who aren’t being treated for hypertension (chronic high BP).

As I’d love for more older adults and families to understand how home BP monitors can help them, in this article I’ll explain how home BP monitors can be helpful specifically for older adults. (And then see my related article here: Choosing & Using a Home Blood Pressure Monitor, & What to Ask the Doctor .)

3 ways a home blood pressure monitor can help you

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: blood pressure

What the New Blood Pressure Guidelines — & Research — Mean For Older Adults

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

blood pressure monitor and medications

Are you on medication to lower blood pressure? Or are you caring for an older person with hypertension, also known as high blood pressure? 

If so, you are probably wondering just what is the right blood pressure (BP) for older adults.

This is a good question, given that guidelines on blood pressure have changed, especially due to the results of the landmark Systolic Blood Pressure Intervention Trial (abbreviated as “SPRINT”).

The SPRINT study first made headlines in part because the findings seemed to contradict expert hypertension guidelines released in December 2013, which for the first time had proposed a higher goal BP ( a systolic BP of less than 150mm mercury) for most adults aged 60 or older.

In particular, SPRINT randomly assigned participants — all of whom were aged 50 or older, and were at high risk for cardiovascular events — to have their systolic blood pressure (that’s the top number) treated to a goal of either 140, or 120. Because the study found that people randomized to a goal of 120 were experiencing better health outcomes, the study was ended early.

For those of us who specialize in optimizing the health of older adults, this was obviously an important research development that could change our medical recommendations for certain older adults.

But what about for you, or for your older relative? Do the SPRINT results mean you should talk to the doctor about changing your BP medications?

Maybe yes, but quite possibly no. In this article, I’ll help you better understand the SPRINT study and results, as well as the side-effects and special considerations for older adults at risk for falls. This way, you’ll better understand how SPRINT’s findings might inform the BP goals that you and your doctors choose to pursue.

Here’s what this post will cover: 

  • What is currently considered “normal” blood pressure for older adults in their 60s, 70s, 80s
  • What the latest blood pressure guidelines recommend
  • What to know about the landmark SPRINT blood pressure in older adults trial, including who was included and excluded, and what type of BP medications were used most often
  • What the actual likelihood of benefits and harms was within SPRINT, and what you might expect if you are similar to the SPRINT participants
  • Why you probably need to make a change in how your blood pressure is measured before considering a SPRINT-style systolic BP goal of 120
  • My own approach and how to avoid over-treatment of high blood pressure

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog Tagged With: blood pressure, medication management

How to Avoid Problems Due to Aging Incapacity: The (Better) Durable General Power of Attorney

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Power of attorney

One of the most common concerns I hear from people is “My older parent’s behavior is concerning me and I’m worried about her mental abilities.”

As I explained in a related article: it’s not always dementia but often it is. And unless an older person has done a good job planning ahead, it can be very hard and messy for others to intervene as needed.

But hopefully, that’s not yet your situation.

In which case, you might be wondering: Given that it’s so common for aging adults to eventually start slipping mentally — or to be suddenly disabled due to an accident or serious health crisis — what kind of planning should older adults and families do to avoid this kind of situation?

I’ve done some research on this question, and here’s what I found out.

One of the simplest — and often less expensive — smart planning approaches is for an older adult to complete a general durable power of attorney (POA) document.

Especially if the powers granted are broad — which they often are — a POA can enable the designated person (known as the “agent”) to step in and assist with finances, housing, safety, and anything else covered by the POA .

A durable POA allows an agent to take action once the older person is “incapacitated.” In California, such POAs can be used to move a person with dementia to a different living arrangement.

Now, the durable power of attorney approach isn’t perfect. Over the years, I’ve noticed that two broad categories of problems come up:

  • Concerns as to whether the agent might be using the POA to financially exploit the situation
  • Issues related to determining incapacity and whether the older person should be overridden.

In truth, I have occasionally encountered situations in which different doctors had different opinions on whether an older person was incapacitated. This troubles me, because agents should really only be stepping in and overriding older adults if we’re all sure they’ve lost capacity and are making decisions that don’t serve their overall goals, or are hazardous to others.

Still, a general durable POA is an excellent approach to consider. But I would recommend you pay special attention to how the document is drafted, in order to reduce the risk of financial exploitation and to avoid pitfalls related to determining incapacity.

In this post, I will share:

  • What I’ve learned about general durable power of attorney documents
  • Why determining incapacitation is often problematic in the real world
  • Tips on avoiding a common POA weakness
  • What to know about including third-party accounting and other strategies recommended by the American Bar Association, to reduce the risk of financial exploitation by an agent
  • Useful resources I’ve found online for more information

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: Advance Care Planning, legal, planning ahead

Medications Older Adults Should Avoid or Use with Caution:
The American Geriatrics Society Beers Criteria (2023 Update)

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Today we’re covering a touchstone resource for geriatricians: the “Beers List” of medications that older adults should avoid or use with caution.

(Technically, it’s called “The AGS Beers Criteria® for Potentially Inappropriate Medication Use in Older Adults.” I personally think of it as the list of “risky medications” for older adults.)

If you want to know which medications older adults should be careful about, this is the list!

This list gets updated every few years, so the Beers Criteria published in May 2023 is about as up-to-date as you can get for this type of guideline document. 

You should know that experts in geriatrics and in medication safety go through a very careful process of reviewing the research on medications, and of updating this list of medications that older adults should avoid or use with caution.

So in this article, here’s what I’ll be sharing with you:

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: medication, medication safety

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