It’s getting to be that time of the year: the season when many of us start looking for a thoughtful gift to give to an older loved one.
I’ll be honest: I’m not much of a shopper and it’s not my style to give physical gifts just for the sake of doing so.
But I do think it can be wonderful to give something that brightens a person’s day.
And it’s even better when a gift is practical, useful, or otherwise helps an older person make the best out of life.
One of my favorite resources, when it comes to identifying useful items to help with age-related challenges or caregiving, are the lists put together by DailyCaring.com.
They have a great list of 50 top gift ideas for seniors, and another terrific list of gifts related to Alzheimer’s and dementia.
In this article, I’ll share my list of eight gifts that can help older adults cope with common late-life challenges.
Four are for older adults in general, and then four are especially useful for those living with Alzheimer’s or a related dementia.
Four great gift ideas for older adults:
1) Adaptive clothing
Specialized clothing can make life much easier for someone with arthritis, limited mobility, incontinence, or other special needs.
- You can find stylish adaptive clothes at Silvert’s and Buck & Buck. For more on how adaptive clothing helps with practical issues, see here.
- You can also get adaptive footwear, such as shoes and slippers, from Silvert’s or Buck & Buck. These can be helpful for people with gout, diabetes, edema, and other special foot care needs. For more on adaptive shoes, see here.
2) A simplified smartphone or tablet
Many older adults can manage the same type of smartphone or tablet as their adult children.
But for those who would prefer something a bit simpler (or who are just moving into smartphones and tablets), a specially designed device can be easy and more pleasant to use. They also often include extra features that can be useful to aging adults.
For instance, the Lively Jitterbug smartphone has a large screen, big buttons, loud speakers, plus additional health and safety features such as an app link for families, 5Star Urgent Response, Urgent Care doctors and nurses, live Personal Operators, and a connection to Lyft.
For a tablet designed for older adults, consider Grandpad. This tablet can be used for video calls, safe internet browsing, listening to music, and more. The apps are designed to be accessible, the navigation is easy, and the tablet plan comes with live support 24/7 to answer question. Grandpads also block spam and robocalls.
For more on tech tools that are good for aging adults, see DailyCaring’s article here.
3) A modern rollator walker
A good mobility device can enable an older person to walk further and more often.
I especially like rollators with seats, which provide balance support and also a convenient spot to sit down when a rest is needed.
This Drive Medical 4-Wheel Rollator Walker With Seat & Removable Back Support rollator walker is very reasonably priced, easy to maneuver, lightweight, and has a handy seat and backrest for rest breaks.
Or, if you’re willing to spend more, consider something like the Carbon Ultralight Rolling Walker, which is more stylish and is super easy to fold and put into a car, due to its exceptionally lightweight design. (You can read many Carbon Ultralight Rolling Walker reviews on Amazon here, although it might be best to buy from the maker directly, to make sure you can access warranty service if you need it.)
4) Motion-activated LED lights
If you’re looking for something smaller or simpler, consider something like motion-activated LED lights.
These AMIR motion-activated stick anywhere LED lights are great for automatically lighting dark corners, closets, or cabinets. They reduce fall risk by illuminating places where you aren’t able to add a lamp.
Four great gift ideas for people with Alzheimer’s or another dementia:
1) A smart picture frame that makes video calls
These ViewClix Smart Frame picture frames display digital photos in a 10.1-inch screen size or 15.6-inch screen size.
Both sizes have video calling with an auto-answer mode. When auto-answer is set up, the older adult doesn’t need to do anything to receive a video call.
This is especially helpful for making video calls to someone with dementia or who isn’t able to physically answer a call.
Plus, the frame can be remotely managed, which makes them hassle-free for the older adult.
2) A weighted blanket to reduce anxiety and promote relaxation
Did you know that weighted blankets can improve sleep and reduce anxiety?
They’re especially helpful for people with dementia (a clinical trial is in progress) and also great for anyone who has trouble sleeping, feels anxious, or would just enjoy feeling more relaxed (you might want one for yourself too). Some of the weighted blankets suggested by Daily Caring include:
- ZZZhen Weighted Blanket – 15 lbs, 48 x 72 inches
- Hypnoser Adult Weighted Blanket – 20 lbs, 60 x 80 inches
- Hug Bud Weighted Blanket – 12 lbs, 60 x 80 inches
- RELAX EDEN Weighted Blanket W/Removable, Washable Duvet Cover – blankets in 15 or 20 lb options
And if you’re crafty, you could make your own DIY weighted blanket – get instructions here.
For more on how weighted blankets can help people with dementia, see DailyCaring’s helpful article here.
3) A Joy for All pet
Many people with dementia adore these artificial pets, which are available as cats or dogs. There is even now a “Walker Squawker” bird available from the same company, invented in part by a 93-year-old woman who wanted an appealing way to be reminded to use her walker (so cool!).
These lifelike and engaging pets are cute and cuddly soft. They’re battery-powered and can purr, meow, bark, move, and respond in realistic ways when petted or hugged.
For more on these, you can read DailyCaring’s comprehensive review here.
4) Adaptive tableware
People with Alzheimer’s often struggle at meal times. Specially designed tableware, such as that made by Eatwell, has been clinically studied. Research suggests these can help reduce confusion and improve nutrition.
DailyCaring has a good article explaining Eatwell’s tableware here.
A bonus gift idea
If you know someone who’s been worried about an aging parent, but isn’t sure how to respectfully step in to provide help: you could gift them my book 🙂
It’s called “When Your Aging Parent Needs Help: A geriatrician step-by-step guide to memory loss, resistance, safety worries, and more,” and you can find it on Amazon, or at most online bookselling platforms of your choice (e.g. Apple Books, Barnes and Noble, etc.)
Need more gift ideas for an older adult or family caregiver in your life?
Again, for even more gift ideas, I highly recommend browsing through DailyCaring’s gift lists, which include:
- 50 Best Gifts for Seniors
- Holiday Gifts for Alzheimer’s and Dementia
- Gifts for Older Women
- Gifts for Older Men
That said, always remember that one of the very best gifts you can give to an older loved one is your presence, your attention, and your patience…those are priceless to others and will always make a difference, whether or not you also purchase a practical gift for the holidays.
Now, do you have any favorite gift ideas you’d like to recommend? Please share below in the comments!
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This article was first published in 2022, and was last updated by Dr. K in November 2023.
Corky King says
The idea of LED lights is a good one, although I would NOT recommend battery operated ones. If a senior has to keep track of changing batteries, they aren’t likely to keep using them. Instead, get USB rechargeable ones, and get a plug-in USB charging station. My husband has Wet Macular Degeneration, and we have LED puck lights on almost every stair tread, and in dark places in the rest of the house. We even take one with us when we travel so we can light our way to hotel bathrooms at night.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Thank you so much for the tip about rechargeable LED lights! You included some links to Amazon in your comment, but I wasn’t able to get to the links with my browser (might be a firewall issue). I would encourage readers to use the Amazon search feature to look for LED lights that suit their needs.
Susan Mann says
QVC.com now includes designer adaptive clothing and other items.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
I went to take a look at the QVC site, and you’re right that they include some clothing adapted for those using a wheelchair or living with disabilities: https://www.qvc.com/catalog/search.html?keyword=adaptive+clothing
I don’t have experience with QVC (bring in Canada) but they have been around a long time and seem to have good customer service.
HenriettaC says
Friday night December 18, 2022, at a rehearsal for one of my 4 choirs, I was standing on the floor in front of indoor church steps when an elderly woman (older than my 86 years) behind me fainted, fell forward and knocked me to the floor. 😧There was nothing to break my fall the way I broke her fall, and I fell hitting my head hard on the carpeted concrete floor. I spent several hours in the ER 🏥waiting and getting my head examined🤪…that is, my head and neck were scanned🧐. Fortunately there were no signs of serious damage, just a painful contusion remains on my scalp😖, still a little sore two weeks later. This is an example of why choral directors tell singers to sit down if they feel faint, the way I did when I lost my balance on narrow steps during another rehearsal recently. I had chosen to stand on the floor at this most recent rehearsal instead of the risers, knowing I still have work to do with my gait and balance exercises, and I stand while playing chimes and handbells to strengthen those. Meanwhile, I am truly impressed that my Apple watch called 911 and notified my emergency contacts of my “hard fall”. The paramedics dispatcher and I talked through my watch about whether or not anyone involved needed paramedics. Fortunately for us no one did. Then even more recently my cousin’s watch contacted her for what it detected as a possible fall. As far as we know she had not fallen, and could tap on “I’m OK” on her Apple Watch. I recommend Apple Watches!
Nicole Didyk, MD says
What a story, Henrietta and I’m glad you had no serious damage. It sounds like you and your family members are using the smart watch effectively to get help when you need it, which is really cool.
I’m also happy to hear that you and other older adults are singing in a choir (in your case 4 choirs!). That’s great for social interaction and can be a good respiratory workout as well.
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Mr Lonly says
I love your article and your recommendations. And I specially love your idea that the best gift is your presence, your attention and your patience. Great! I want 84 years old and I do not appreciate physical gifts I would rather have my children dedicate a half hour a day or every two days so I can and they can share something about their issues or lives. I live by myself and maybe the isolation or loneliness is getting to me. I do not have depression.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
I’m so glad you enjoyed the article, and you make a great point about loneliness.
I’ll share this article about loneliness in older age: https://academic.oup.com/ageing/article/48/4/476/5423796. Loneliness can affect an older person’s health and it can be helped with the input of families and communities.
I hope you can let your family members know how you feel, and they can share their lives with you as you describe.
Mr. Neftali Fernandez says
Wonderful article and the information is priceless. I have shared this with many people and family who are dealing with some of these issues. thanks
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Thanks for sharing the article, and I’m so happy that you enjoyed it! Please let us know what other topics might be of interest!
Carol Coursey says
Talking watches. Gave one to my husband who has dementia. He loves it.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
That’s wonderful to hear (no pun intended)! Thanks for sharing that gift idea and have a wonderful holiday season.
Jenna says
My Dad likes to still do home projects and to help him, I got him a magnetic wristband that can hold the nails and screws if his hands are full.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
That’s a great idea and I’m sure your dad will appreciate how practical it is! Thanks for sharing.
Dave with Andi Johnson says
Dr. K.
God bless you for your practical advice and insights. We particularly appreciated your delightful article on gifts for dementia-disabled stroke survivors. Our loved one falls into the foregoing category and can be challenging to gift for that is meaningful yet practical. Nearly all of your suggestions will make her happy
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Thank you for your very kind comment and I’m so glad you liked the article!
Please let us know what you chose as a gift and how it was received! Have a lovely holiday season.