Have you ever been concerned about an older relative who seems to be making bad decisions?
Perhaps your elderly father insists he has no difficulties driving, even though he’s gotten into some fender benders and you find yourself a bit uncomfortable when you ride in the car with him.
Or you’ve worried about your aging aunt giving an alarming amount of money to people who call her on the phone.
Or maybe it’s your older spouse, who has started refusing to take his medication, claiming that it’s poisoned because the neighbor is out to get him.
These situations are certainly concerning, and they often prompt families to ask me if they should be worried about an older adult becoming “incompetent.”
In response, I usually answer that we need to do at least two things:
- We should assess whether the person has “capacity” to make the decision in question.
- If there are signs concerning for memory or thinking problems, we should evaluate to determine what might be causing them.
If you’ve been concerned about an older person’s mental wellbeing or ability to make decisions, understanding what clinicians — and lawyers — mean by capacity is hugely important.
In fact, the American Bar Association’s Ten Legal Tips for Caregivers lists “Understand Decisional Capacity” as tip #1. But so far, I’ve found very little information available online, to help older adults and families understand this important issue.
So in this article, I’ll answer some of the frequently asked questions that come up around this topic:
- What does the term “capacity” mean when it comes to decision-making?
- What is the difference between incapacity and incompetence?
- How is capacity determined?
- How do Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia affect capacity?
- Does capacity have to be determined by legal professionals? Is it a “legal decision” whether someone has capacity?
- Do I have to have a legal or clinical determination of incapacity for a specific decision before I override the decision of an older person with dementia?
I’ll also share a list of additional resources and references at the end.
What does the term “capacity” mean when it comes to decision-making?
Let’s say you tell me that your 87-year old aunt Mary has been falling repeatedly, but she refuses to go see a doctor.
In this case, we might consider whether she has the capacity to decide whether or not she needs to see the doctor. It’s especially vital to do this if Mary has been showing signs of memory or thinking problems, or if she’s been diagnosed with a dementia such as Alzheimer’s.
When we ask whether a person has the capacity to make a given decision, we are asking whether the person can show us that he or she has the mental abilities necessary to make the decision.
Generally, capacity requires that individuals be able to understand:
- The situation they are in,
- The decision in question,
- The consequences of making a given choice.
The person should also be able to explain his or her reasoning, and express the choice to others. And the reasoning should not rely on anything that strikes most people as bizarre or delusional.
Experts have determined that capacity requires these four decision-making abilities:
- Understanding: Understanding the issue/decision and the available options
- Expressing a choice: Being able to state a decision
- Appreciation: Being able to explain how the information about the situation and available options apply to one’s personal situation
- Reasoning: Being able to compare options and understand the relevant consequences.
Different types of decisions require different types of mental abilities. Experts consider that these six civil capacities are of particular importance for older adults:
- Medical consent capacity
- Financial capacity
- Testamentary capacity
- Sexual consent capacity
- Capacity to drive
- Capacity to live independently
Legal standards for capacity are determined by state law. The specific requirements can vary, depending on the state and the type of capacity in question.
People sometimes assume that decisional capacity is an “all-or-nothing” type of ability: either you have it, or you don’t. This is sometimes framed as whether a person is “competent” or “incompetent” to manage affairs. (See below for more on capacity and competence.)
But the reality is more complex. Here are two essential points everyone should understand.
1.Capacity is decision-specific.
This means a person’s capacity should be evaluated in light of a specific decision to be made.
Why does this matter? Well, some decisions are complex and require a person to consider and weigh multiple pieces of information. For instance, the decision to sell one’s home, which may involve consideration of tax and estate consequences, is often quite complex.
In comparison, some decisions may be relatively straightforward. For this reason, it is possible for a person to lack capacity to make certain types of decisions while retaining the capacity to make simpler decisions.
2. Capacity can fluctuate, depending on a person’s health circumstances.
For instance, most people immediately after surgery are drowsy. In this state, most will lack the capacity to address anything more than a very simple decision. But, their decisional capacity should improve as the person mentally recovers from the surgery.
It is also common for people with vulnerable brains, such as people with a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s or another dementia, to experience fluctuations in capacity. When they are feeling well and are at their best, their mental abilities might be good enough for them to have capacity for many decisions. But if they are sick, or stressed, or otherwise not thinking at their best, their capacity to make decisions can be reduced, sometimes drastically so.
For these reasons, before concluding that a person lacks capacity for a given decision or task, every effort should be made to improve capacity if at all possible. Such improvements may be possible by treating an underlying health problem, or by mitigating any hearing or vision problems.
I explain a simple device that geriatricians often use to improve hearing here: Age-Related Hearing Loss: What to Know & What to Do.
What is the difference between incapacity and incompetence?
Capacity is often considered from a clinical perspective (i.e. by doctors, psychologists, and others) versus a legal perspective (i.e. by lawyers, judges, and courts).
Historically, the term “competence” was used in legal settings and the term “capacity” was used in clinical settings. The legal determination of competence related to whether a person had the legal right to make their own decisions, and was usually informed by a clinical assessment of capacity.
Hence many clinicians will still say that they cannot assess someone’s “competence;” they can only assess their capacity as regards a given decision or life function.
However, states have recently been moving away from global legal determinations that a person is “incompetent,” — which often meant the loss of virtually all control over one’s affairs — and are increasingly favoring determinations of incapacity for certain types of decisions or life functions.
Hence the old convention of using “competence” for the legal arena and “capacity” for the clinical one no longer works well.
Instead, it is more accurate to refer to “legal capacity” versus “clinical capacity.” These two concepts are distinct – albeit related — as explained further below.
How is capacity determined?
In most situations, we presume that adults have capacity. If concerns about capacity are raised by others, or if a professional notices anything to cause concern about capacity, then a process of further assessing capacity may be started.
Legal professionals are generally required (by state laws and by their professional code of conduct) to conduct a preliminary assessment of a person’s capacity to complete a given legal task. They may be required to take action if they believe a person may not have capacity for the issue at hand.
However, legal professionals are not trained to clinically assess capacity. Such assessments must be done by professionals with some type of healthcare — often psychology — background.
Clinical capacity assessments vary depending on the type of clinician involved and the capacity issues in questions. Generally, they include a more detailed evaluation of the person’s capabilities, and should also include the likely medical causes for any reduction in capacity.
This article describes a very practical framework for assessing capacity for older adults to make common decisions: Everyday Decision-making Ability in Older Persons with Cognitive Impairment.
A clinician’s evaluation of capacity will result in a clinical opinion regarding the capacity in question. Clinicians sometimes may state that a person appears to have marginal or borderline capacity for the decision in question.
This clinical opinion can then be used by legal professionals to help them complete their legal determination of capacity.
How do Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia affect capacity?
Any disease or disorder that disrupts cognition — the brain’s memory and thinking processes — can impair a person’s decision-making capacity.
In early Alzheimer’s and dementia, people usually retain the capacity to make many types of decisions, but not necessarily all of them. It all depends on the decision in question, and also on which thinking processes seem to be most affected in a particular person.
For decisions that are complex or high-stakes (e.g. those related to property or large sums of money), it is a good idea to assess the person’s capacity to make the decision in question, before proceeding.
It would also be appropriate to consider or assess capacity if the person with early dementia is making questionable decisions that affect their health or safety.
As dementia progresses over time to a moderate stage, people will lose the capacity to make all but the simplest decisions. At this point, a family member or other trusted person will generally have to make most decisions on behalf of the person with dementia. For this reason, people diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and other dementias are highly encouraged to designate a power of attorney for healthcare and for general affairs, while they still have the capacity to do so.
Does capacity have to be determined by legal professionals? Is it a “legal decision” whether someone has capacity?
Yes, in principle capacity is a legal determination and should be made by legal professionals.
However, in most states, physicians and other clinicians are allowed to determine capacity for medical decisions, especially for the purposes of enabling a surrogate healthcare decision-maker to act.
In the real world, many people take action without fully understanding the laws and procedures related to capacity, or without consulting a competent lawyer. Such actions often proceed unless another person brings suit to contest the actions.
For instance, it’s fairly common for family members and others to take action based on a physician or other clinician opining that an individual has become “incapacitated” or “incompetent.” But such actions may be on shaky legal or ethical ground, especially if actions of major consequence (e.g. sale of property) take place. So if a family suspects loss of capacity, it’s best to seek legal assistance before proceeding.
Do I have to have a legal or clinical determination of incapacity for a specific decision, before I override the decision of an older person with dementia?
Yes, you should seek a clinical assessment of capacity if you are concerned about a dementia such as Alzheimer’s disease. This is especially important if you believe it has progressed to the point that a person has lost the capacity to make certain decisions.
If you feel you need to override the person’s decisions, for instance to protect the person’s physical safety or financial wellbeing, you may need a legal determination of incapacity.
If the person with dementia has completed a durable general power of attorney, the agent should be able to act on their behalf. To override decisions made by the person with dementia, the agent will often need to provide proof that the person has lost the capacity to make certain types of decisions. Many power of attorney documents specify the criteria for deeming the principal incapacitated, although some are pretty vague about this.
If the person who has dementia has not completed a durable general power of attorney, then you will probably need to consult with a lawyer, to determine whether the person still has the capacity to designate a power of attorney. If the person is lacking this capacity, then you may need to pursue guardianship in court, in order to override the person’s decisions.
Even if you have secured a legal determination of incapacity for certain decisions, it’s vital to act in accordance with ethical best practices that respect the person’s autonomy and dignity to the greatest extent possible.
Do I need a legal or clinical determination of incapacity before I take the car keys away from an older parent who has dementia and is an unsafe driver?
If you are concerned about dementia and driving, you should make every effort to obtain a clinical assessment of capacity to drive safely. A legal determination of incapacity to drive will also help ensure you are on sound legal and ethical footing.
It’s also essential to learn more about your state’s options and requirements when it comes to reporting potentially unsafe drivers. For instance, some states require clinicians to report moderate or severe dementia to the DMV.
However, many families find that the older person in question is refusing to see a doctor or attorney. In this case, you can still call the doctor and report your concerns. Privacy laws such as HIPAA do not require families to get permission to reveal details to the doctor; they only require health professionals to have permission — or other good reasons — to disclose a patient’s information to others. If the doctor has a good relationship with the older person, they may be able to persuade them to come in for a visit.
Or, you can try calling Adult Protective Services; they don’t take a person’s car keys away but they can sometimes encourage or even insist on further evaluation. You can also try to enlist others in the older person’s social circle, to see if it’s possible to persuade the person to give up the keys.
As a last resort, if you have evidence that driving poses a substantial risk of harm to the older person and to other motorists and pedestrians, it’s reasonable to conclude that this outweighs the harm of taking a person’s keys before legal incapacity is confirmed. Such evidence might be past crashes or near-misses, combined with other evidence that the person has reached a state of moderate or worse dementia, such as frequently getting lost or appearing confused.
Of note, the Alzheimer’s Association’s position statement on driving and dementia states:
“Driving privileges must be withheld when the individual poses a serious risk to self or others. Interventions to prevent driving in individuals who lack insight include physician oral or written recommendations, taking the keys, removing the car, changing the locks, filing down the ignition key, and revoking the license.”
Is neuropsychological testing required to assess capacity?
Not necessarily. Clinicians are usually allowed to use “clinical judgment” in conducting their evaluations and reaching their conclusions.
Especially if a person has a dementia that is at a moderate or severe stage, it is often possible for a generalist physician to provide evidence of a lack of capacity, simply by interviewing the person, documenting responses that demonstrate a lack of needed understanding or reasoning, documenting evidence from family members and other observers, and providing evidence that the medical cause of the thinking problems is not likely to improve.
However, if a person’s cognitive impairments are mild, subtle, or focused in certain cognitive domains, then neuropsychological testing is often very useful. Neuropsychological testing can also be used if a preliminary clinical evaluation by a physician yields borderline or uncertain results.
Resources & References to Help You Understand Capacity
Written for the lay public:
- Legal Planning (Alzheimer’s Association)
- Assisting a Person with Dementia in Planning for the Future (Alzheimer’s Association)
- Driving and Dementia (Alzheimer’s Association)
Written for professionals:
- Assessment of Capacity in Older Adults (American Bar Association/American Psychological Association)
- Includes links to free comprehensive guides for clinicians, lawyers, and judges
- Understanding Legal Capacity and Ethics (Practice Guide, National Center on Law & Elder Rights)
- Overview of Guardianship and Alternatives to Guardianship (National Center on Law & Elder Rights)
- Assessment of Capacity in an Aging Society (PubMedCentral)
- Clinical and Ethical Aspects of Financial Capacity in Dementia: A Commentary (PubMedCentral)
Note: I am not an attorney or a psychologist. This article is based on my review of the above resources, plus my own clinical experiences and conversations with attorneys and other experts.
This article was first published in May 2016 and was last updated in June of 2022.
Lesley says
I have a parent that is becoming very forgetful, and has cancer. He is on a second marriage, me and my siblings are afraid that she will talk my dad into making changes to his financial decisions concerning beneficiaries, the new wife is not on these accounts, on his investment decisions. I have a durable power of attorney for my dad, but I want to have it so that two signatures are required to make any changes on these accounts. Do I have to have him declared incompetent to do this.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
That sounds like it could be a stressful situation and I understand wanting to protect your father’s assets. It might depend on the terms of the Durable POA how much power you have. If he has joint accounts, a call to the financial institution to see if the terms of the accounts could be changed by the attorney (you) without any other documentation then you might not need a finding of incapacity.
Jim McKinley says
I need my 101 yr old mom to sign an agreement involving me loaning money to her. (Her estate will reimburse me after she passes). I don’t trust my brother and am concerned that he may try to do something to stop me from collecting. Specifically, he may try to say our mother was not in “stable mine” when she signed the contract. Do I have to worry about this if I have Durable POA? Should I seek an evaluation by a doctor, and if so, can it be a M.D. or does it have to be a psychiatrist (which would be awkward)?
Thank you!
Nicole Didyk, MD says
As a Geriatrician, I often get asked about a person’s capacity to make financial decisions, and it’s sometimes difficult for me to form an opinion, especially if I don’t have all of the information about the older person’s assets, obligations, family situation, etc.
My understanding of a durable POA for property is that you can act on your mom’s behalf with regards to her money, without any other checks or balances, but I can understand you being worried about how this may be perceived in the future.
The safest thing to do would be to get a legally binding agreement drawn up and witnessed. The lawyer who is helping with that agreement should determine if your mom understands what she’s signing or not.
Aimee Torres says
The will and land transfer was signed 7/15/20
Aimee Torres says
My mother has been found incompetent by her physician in October of 2019. I was poking around on the court document search and found that my Aunt took my mom to a lawyer and she signed her home over to my sister. There are 3 children in total. This was done completely behind our back and was discernment that had me checking in the first place. My mom can’t be left alone and the same sister that lives with her leaves her home for hours at a time both day and night because I call her and she’s alone? Both my Aunt and Sister were aware that my mom was not able to sigh legal documents. Is this illegal? What could be done?
Nicole Didyk, MD says
I’m not a lawyer, but my understanding of capacity is that there are different types depending on the choices that a person is making. For example, capacity for property decisions is different than capacity for health care decisions, or shelter decisions. So, a person can be capable of a shelter decision but not of a healthcare decision. It’s not usual that a person is globally incapable, or unable to make any decisions for themselves in any domain.
If a lawyer helps a person with a property decision, it seems to me that it would be the lawyer’s responsibility to decide that the person is capable to make that decision, and not under any undue influence. It might be hard to prove anything, but talking to an actual lawyer would be a good place to start.
Mikki Reed says
My mother is 81 yrs old and my oldest son who is 25 lives with her. She has monocular disease in both eyes and is practically blind. She has a history of falling. She has had a shunt put in her brain from normal pressure encephalitis. She is pretty with it as far as keeping up with her finances and checkbook but she cannot cook clean bathe by herself at all. So we fill she is vulnerable…she keeps allowing her yard man into her home who she has now befriended. His mother has passed away so she feels the need to be his friend and he in turn has found a mother figure im sure. Anyways, now she is allowing him to come into her home to shower because his water has been cut off…this is not ok with the family because he only comes around when she is home alone!!!! He happens to have an extensive criminal past as well!!! Theft of service, several DUIs, 3 assault charges, an unlawful carry of a weapon, drug charges with paraphernalia and lastly trespassing!! charge. We have told her all of this and explained our concerns….she just says this is my house and i will do as i see fit…he is my friend and Jesus wants me to help him out if im able. We say well hes only been clean a year and you are very vulnerable what if one time he comes in here and is “off the wagon” and were to harm you or steal you blind…her response is so be it or if he kills me i would probably be better off anyways. She doesnt see death as a bad thing per se as my sister died years ago and it would be fine and dandy for their reunion!!! This sounds crazy she isnt suicidal by any means but very flippant when it comes to death.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
It sounds like a difficult situation and I can understand you being worried about your mom. In general, if a person is mentally competent, they are entitled to make poor decisions, as long as the person can understand their situation, their choices, and the potential consequences of those choices. If family members feel that their older adult relative is not competent and may be at risk, then going the legal route to seek a guardianship might be the way to go.
Valerie Price says
My Mother is wanting out of this busing home. She is in the early stages of dementia. I am able to care for her 24/7 from her home and this is what she wants. I am excellent elderly people. My brother has POA. Can I take her home without his consent.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
That would probably depend on whether your mom is capable of making a shelter decision for herself. If she isn’t, then it’s up to her Substitute Decision Maker, who may be your brother. Maybe a family discussion would be helpful.
pedro says
great
Linda Hankinson says
I have power of attorney for my husband who is in a nursing home – suffering from Parkinson’s Disease and dementia. My questions is does he have the right to refuse medical treatment prescribed by his neurologist even though it could help him immensely. The nursing home staff tell me they can’t make him do it if he doesn’t want to. Is this true?
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Hi Linda and sorry to hear that your husband is suffering. My understanding (based on how we deal with issues of capacity in my province, Ontario) is that if your husband understands his situation, understands his choices, and has a reasonable appreciation of the risks and benefits of making either choice (for example to accept treatment or decline treatment), then he is capable to consent or refuse treatment.
It may be different in your state, but I did find this list of resident rights for those in long-term care in your state. It includes the right to refuse treatment as long as the person understands the risks.
It may be worth exploring why your husband doesn’t want the treatment. I find that sometimes providing additional information about the goals and potential side effects can help a person to accept a trial of therapy.
Emily Panasiti says
My 90-year-old Father has been leasing a home in a 55+ senior community for 1-3/4’s years. He has dementia and it is getting worse. I sent a certified letter to the landlord telling him that my Father has health problems and that moving forward it will be necessary that we live together and that my Father would like to terminate the lease 2 1/2 months early prior to the lease contract’s 1-year lease end. The landlord sent a very long and detailed threatening letter to my Father saying he would sue my Father if he “breached” the lease contract 2 1/2 months early, and that he would sue him if he attempted to sublet the home during the remaining 2 1/2 months of the lease , and that he would sue him if he damaged the home. What legal recourse do we have? Can we legally get out of the lease 2 1/2 months early with a note from my Father’s neurologist detailing that my father cannot live alone anymore?
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Hi Emily, and I’m very sorry to hear about your difficulties. I am not a lawyer, but it sounds like you might need one to sort this out. As a geriatrician, I do get asked to provide letters about my patients’ medical issues all the time, and I assume these letters can be helpful in allowing them to avoid some legal prosecution. Best of luck.
Dawn Shepherd says
I am POA for HC for my Dad. It has been activated for about a year now. My father ended up moving in with us after my brother (original POA) decided to move to FL. My Dad needs 24 hr care and its beginning to take a toll on my marriage, kids and work. I have begun to looked for alternative living arrangements. However, my fathers paperwork says he does not want to go to a nursing home or community based residential facility. Am I able to override that? Do I have any options?
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Hi Dawn. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate. It was probably very helpful that your dad made some of his wishes known, but that puts you in a tough spot. It’s a common scenario, I even made a video about it. I am not a lawyer, and it probably varies from state to state, but I think that if your dad truly needs that level of care, and you are acting in his best interest, you will have to do what he was hoping to avoid and find a place that will provide what he needs to stay well.