What should you do if an older person complains of not sleeping well at night?
Experts do believe that “normal aging” brings on some changes to sleep. (See this post for more on how sleep changes with aging.) Basically, older adults tend to get sleepy earlier in the evening, and tend to sleep less deeply than when they were younger.
So it’s probably not realistic to expect that as you get older, you’ll sleep as long or as soundly as when you were younger.
That said, although aging by itself does change sleep, it’s also quite common for older adults to develop health problems that can cause sleep disturbances. So when your older relatives say they aren’t sleeping well, you’ll want to help them check for these. Figuring out what’s going on is always the first step in being able to improve things.
And remember, getting enough good quality sleep helps maintain brain health, physical health, and mood.
In this article, I’ll cover the top causes of sleep problems in older adults. I’ll also tell you about what approaches have been proven to work, to help treat insomnia and sleep problems in older adults.
Last but not least, if you (or your older relative) have experienced the very common combination of waking up to pee at night and difficulty sleeping, I highly recommend listening to this podcast episode, which features a geriatrician who is an expert on this: 092- Interview: Addressing Nighttime Urination & Insomnia in Aging.
5 Common Causes of Sleep Problems in Older Adults
1. Sleep problems due to an underlying medical problem. Although older adults do often suffer from what’s called “primary” sleep disorders, many sleep problems they experience are “secondary” sleep problems, meaning they are secondary to an underlying medical condition whose main symptoms are not sleep related.
Common health conditions that can disrupt sleep in older adults include:
- Heart and lung conditions which affect breathing, such as heart failure and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease
- Gastroesophageal reflux disease, which causes heartburn symptoms and can be affected by big meals late at night
- Painful conditions, including osteoarthritis
- Urinary problems that cause urination at night; this can be caused by an enlarged prostate or an overactive bladder
- Mood problems such as depression and anxiety
- Neurodegenerative disorders such as Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s
- Medication side-effects
If an older person is having difficulty sleeping, it’s important to make sure that one of these common conditions isn’t contributing to the problem. Treating an underlying problem — such as untreated pain at night — can often improve sleep. It can also help to talk to a pharmacist about all prescription and over-the-counter drugs, to make sure that these aren’t contributing to insomnia.
Alzheimer’s and related dementias pose special considerations when it comes to sleep, which I write about in this post: How to Manage Sleep Problems in Dementia.
2. Snoring, Sleep Apnea, and other forms of Sleep-Related Breathing Disorders. Sleep-related breathing disorders (“SRBD”; it’s also sometimes called sleep-disordered breathing) is an umbrella term covering a spectrum of problems related to how people breathe while asleep.
Sleep apnea is a common condition which is important to diagnose since it’s been associated with many other health problems (especially in middle-aged adults). In sleep apnea, a person has frequent pauses in their breathing during sleep. The most common form is obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), in which the breathing pauses are due to obstructions in the breathing passages. OSA is often associated with snoring. A less common form is central sleep apnea, in which the breathing pauses are related to changes in the brain.
How common it is: The likelihood of having sleep-disordered breathing disorders goes up with age. It’s also more common in men, and in people who are overweight. In one study of 827 healthy older adults aged 68, 53% were found to have signs of SRBD, with 37% meeting criteria for significant sleep apnea. Interestingly, most participants did not complain of excess sleepiness.
Why it’s a problem: Studies have found that untreated OSA is associated with poor health outcomes including increased mortality, stroke, coronary artery disease, and heart failure. However, studies also suggest that these associations are strongest in people aged 40-70, and weaker in older adults. For older adults with symptomatic OSA, treatment can reduce daytime sleepiness and improve quality of life.
What to do if you’re concerned: Helpguide.org’s page on sleep apnea has a useful list of common symptoms and risk factors for sleep apnea. You can also ask the doctor about further evaluation if you’ve noticed a lot of daytime sleepiness. To be diagnosed, you’ll need to pursue polysomnography (objective sleep testing) either in a sleep lab or with a home sleep testing kit.
Whether or not you pursue an official diagnosis for SRBD, avoiding alcohol (and probably other sedatives) is likely to help.
3. Restless leg syndrome (RLS). This condition causes sensations of itching, crawling, or restlessness as a person is trying to fall asleep. The symptoms are unpleasant but not usually painful, and improve with movement. The exact biological underpinnings of this problem remain poorly understood, but it seems to be related to dopamine and iron levels in the brain. Most cases are not not thought to be related to neurodegeneration.
How common it is: Studies suggest that 5-15% of the general population meet criteria for RLS, but only 2.5% of people are thought to have clinically severe symptoms. Poor health, older age, low iron levels, and being female are some risk factors. It also tends to run in families.
Why it’s a problem: RLS has been associated with depression, anxiety, and sleep-onset insomnia. It can also get worse with certain types of medication.
What to do if you’re concerned: Read up on RLS (Helpguide.org’s page seems very good) and then talk to a doctor. Generally, you don’t need polysomnography but you should probably be checked for low iron levels. You can read about possible non-drug and pharmacological treatment options at Helpguide.org.
4. Periodic Limb Movements of Sleep (PLMS). This condition is not easily treatable, but I’m listing it since I’ve discovered it’s much more common than I realized. PLMS causes intermittent movements while asleep, usually in the lower limbs. It can affect the toes, ankles, knees, or hips. The movements may or may not wake the person up; they can be annoying to a bed partner.
How common it is: Studies estimate that 45% of older adults experience PLMS. Many such older adults are otherwise healthy. However, PLMS is also often associated with other sleep problems, such as restless legs and sleep apnea. Experts believe that it’s fairly rare for people to experience clinically significant sleep disturbances solely due to PLMS.
Is it a problem? PLMS can be an issue mainly because it’s associated with other sleep problems. Most people who experience PLMS don’t notice it much, although some do find it bothersome. Only a few studies have attempted to treat isolated PLMS, and it’s not clear that there is a reliable way to treat this. In its 2012 guideline on treating restless leg syndrome and PLMS, the American Academy of Sleep Medicine concluded that there was “insufficient evidence” to recommend pharmacological treatment.
5. Insomnia. Insomnia means having difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep, despite the opportunity to do so (e.g. being in bed), and experiencing decreased daytime function because of this. I consider this the grand-daddy of all sleep problems, because it affects so many people in middle-age and older age.
How common is it: Very common, and it becomes even more common with aging. One study found that 23-24% of older adults reported symptoms of insomnia.
Why it’s a problem: Insomnia has been associated with anxiety, depression, fatigue, worse quality of life, cognitive decline, and a variety of other worse long-term health outcomes.
What to do if you’re concerned: The main thing to do is assess the problem, by tracking sleep and using a sleep journal. And then seek help. For older adults, it is especially important to not simply rely on prescription or non-prescription (e.g. alcohol, over-the-counter pills) substances to help with sleep. That’s because all such substances worsen brain function and increase the risk of cognitive decline. (See “4 Types of Brain-Slowing Medication to Avoid if You’re Worried About Memory” for more details.)
Proven Ways to Treat Insomnia in Older Adults
Insomnia is a very common complaint among family caregivers and older adults. Fortunately, research has shown that it’s possible to treat insomnia effectively, although it does often take a little time and effort.
Why Sedatives Aren’t the Way to Go and Proven Ways to Taper Off Them
Before I go into the recommended treatments, let me say it again: you should only use sedatives as a last resort. That’s because most medications that make people sleepy are bad for brain function, in both the short-term and long-term.
Benzodiazepines such as lorazepam, alprazolam, diazepam, and temazepam (Ativan, Xanax, Valium, and Restoril) are also habit-forming. It can be a lot of work to wean people off these drugs, but research has proven it’s possible.
For instance, in this randomized control study, many older adults who had been on benzodiazepines for sleep (mean duration of use was 19.3 years!) were able to taper off their sleeping pills. 63% were drug-free after 7 weeks. (Yeah!)
Plus, in my own personal experience, it becomes extremely difficult once a person has started to develop a dementia such as Alzheimer’s, because then their behavior and thinking can get a lot worse if they are a little sleep-deprived or anxious. (In the short-term, almost everyone who tapers off of sedatives has to endure a little extra restlessness while the body adapts to being without the drug.) But letting them continue to use their benzodiazepine puts us in a pickle, because it also keeps them from having the best brain function possible, is associated with faster cognitive decline, AND increases fall risk.
I hope you see what I’m getting at. If either you or someone you care for are taking benzodiazepines for sleep or anxiety, and you aren’t dealing with a dementia diagnosis, now is the time to do the work of trying to get off these drugs. (If you are dealing with a dementia diagnosis, you should still ask the doctors for help trying to reduce the use of these drugs, but it will all be harder. It’s still often possible to at least reduce the doses being used.)
The key to successfully stopping sedatives for sleep is to very slowly taper the drug under medical supervision, plus add cognitive-behavioral therapy or other sleep-improving approaches if possible.
For more on this topic, and for a handy (and research-proven) consumer handout that helps older adults stop benzodiazepines, see “How You Can Help Someone Stop Ativan.” This article also addresses the question of whether it’s ever okay for an older person to be on benzodiazepines.
Now, let’s review some proven approaches to improving sleep in older adults.
Proven ways to treat insomnia in older adults:
- Cognitive-behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I). This means special therapy that helps a person avoid negative thought patterns that promote insomnia, along with regular sleep habits, relaxation techniques, and other behavioral techniques that improve sleep. It has a good track record in research, as described in this NPR story. A new study also confirmed that CBT-I also benefits people who have insomnia combined with other medical or psychiatric conditions.
- CBT-I can be done in person, and is also effective when done through online programs. Two online programs with proven clinical efficacy are Sleepio (see here for the study) and SHUTi.
- CBT-I may incorporate several techniques such as stimulus control, and sleep restriction therapy. This Mayo Clinic page has a nice list of specific behavioral therapy components that might be included in CBT-I for insomnia.
- Brief behavioral treatment of insomnia (BBTI). This is a shorter variant of CBT-I; it’s designed to be delivered in 4 weeks. It also has a good track record in research.
- A study also found that BBTI was effective in reducing nighttime urination.
- Mindfulness meditation. A randomized control trial published in April 2015 found that mindfulness meditation was more effective than “sleep hygiene,” to improve the sleep of older adults with a variety of sleep disturbances. Older adults assigned to mindfulness completed a weekly 2-hour, 6-session group-based course.
- Local in-person courses to learn mindfulness are often available; search online to find one near you. They may also be available at certain senior centers.
- An online version of the course used in the study is available here.
- Several smartphone based apps propose to help people with mindfulness. They are reviewed in the scholarly literature here. I personally have used Headspace in the past and liked it.
- Exercise. Exercise is often thought of as a treatment for insomnia, but the evidence seems weaker than for CBT-I. A review article published in 2012 concluded that the effect is modest. A more recent randomized trial comparing CBT-I to tai chi, for insomnia in older adults, found that CBT-I was more effective.
- Although exercise is obviously very important to health, don’t rely on it as the primary way to try to solve sleep problems.
- It’s also possible that exercise may help insomnia, but a fascinating small study suggested that in people with chronic insomnia, it can take a few months for exercise to have an effect on sleep.
Are there any medications or supplements that are safe and effective?
Benzodiazepine drugs and sleeping medications such as zolpidem (brand name Ambien) are definitely risky for older adults, as they dampen brain function and worsen balance. If you or your loved one is depending on such medications to sleep, I recommend you get help tapering off, as described above. Most older adults can learn to sleep without these medications, although it can take a little effort to wean off the drug and learn to get to sleep without them.
Many over-the-counter (OTC) medications that make people sleepy are also a problem, because most of them are “anticholinergic,” which means they interfere with a key neurotransmitter called acetylcholine. A very commonly used anticholinergic is diphenhydramine (brand name Benadryl), a sedating antihistamine that is included in most night-time analgesics, but many prescription medications are anticholinergic as well.
Older adults should be very careful about using anticholinergics often for sleep, or really for anything. That’s because they worsen brain function, and in fact, chronic use of these medications has been associated with developing Alzheimer’s and other dementias. (For more on this, see 7 Common Brain-Slowing Anticholinergic Drugs Older Adults Should Use With Caution.)
Virtually all sedatives are included in the American Geriatrics Society Beers Criteria® for Potentially Inappropriate Medication Use in Older Adults.
So those are the medications to avoid if possible.
Now here are a few medications that seem to be less risky, and are sometimes used:
- Melatonin: Melatonin is a hormone involved in the sleep-wake cycle. Several studies, such as this one, have found that melatonin improves the sleep of older adults and does not seem to be associated with any withdrawal symptoms. A 2023 review found that melatonin has a “favorable safety profile” in older adults. However, in the U.S. melatonin is sold as a poorly-regulated supplement, and studies have found that commercially sold supplements are often of questionable quality and purity. So melatonin may work less reliably here than in Europe.
- Ramelteon: Ramelteon is a synthetic drug that mimics the effect of melatonin. A 2009 study reported that ramelteon did not impair middle-of-the-night balance or memory in older adults. However, its efficacy has been questioned; a 2014 meta-analysis concluded that the clinical effect appeared to be “small.”
- Trazodone: Trazodone is an older weak anti-depressant that is mildly sedating. It has long been used by geriatricians as a “sleeping pill” of choice, as it is not anticholinergic and seems to be less risky than the alternatives. A small 2014 study found that trazodone improved sleep in Alzheimer’s patients.
For a detailed and technical review of sleep medicines in older adults, this article is good: Review of Safety and Efficacy of Sleep Medicines in Older Adults.
And again, if you or your older relative has been bothered by the need to urinate at night, I also want to recommend this BHWA podcast episode: 092- Interview: Addressing Nighttime Urination & Insomnia in Aging.
For information on evaluating and managing sleep problems in people with Alzheimer’s or other dementias, see this article: How to Manage Sleep Problems in Dementia.
This article was last updated by Dr. K in January 2024.
Delores says
I have been struggling with gerd, suffer from dehydration a lot, dryness, malnutrition, sleep deprivation for 9 months now. I don’t get very much sleep, sometimes not at all. My eyesight is going, can’t see much in front of me. No doctors can help me. I need help. I can’t sleep or eat very well and lots of other things have set in. I get a pain on my right side and don’t know when I need to go urinate. Meds are not helpful because I seem to have trouble breathing and heart rate fluctuates. A doctor did give me levaquin for a kidney infection and then hydroxlyzine to aid sleep, then buspar and paxil and that seemed to mess everything up. I got dried up and couldn’t produce saliva well. I just want help to feel myself again.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
I’m sorry to hear about the trouble you’re having. A lot of people describe dryness as a side effect from their medications, and that can be part of an anticholinergic effect. Other anticholinergic side effects can include dry mouth, blurred vision, trouble passing urine and confusion. If I had a patient who was experiencing medication side effects, I would work with the patient and pharmacist to try to reduce the anticholinergic medications and to find alternatives that are more agreeable. Good luck!
Rachel says
Hi,
I am a 53 year old women and ever since I can remember I have found it difficult to stay awake at night, my eyes fight against me to close this can be embarrassing and awkward for my husband. I fall asleep in the cinema, I can never watch a film?
I normally wake in the morning around 6am, always worked. I have visited my doctor but nothing was advised.
Have you any suggestions?
Nicole Didyk, MD says
I’m sorry to hear about your problem, which sounds like it’s annoying to you! It’s hard to say what the cause could be, especially if it seems to be a longstanding pattern for you. There are 2 things that I wonder about when someone tells me they are drowsy during the day.
One is reviewing medications to make sure there aren’t any that could be causing daytime sleepiness, and the other is Obstructive Sleep Apnea. Untreated sleep apnea can cause a lot of sleepiness during the day and can cause other problems like hypertension and heart disease.
It’s reassuring that your doctor felt there were no major problems.
Carol says
I suffer from osteoarthritis in feet ,knees & back. I have been taking Amytriptaline 10 mg ( Endep ) at night for the last 3 years . It helps me have a good sleep .
Is it safe to continue long term as can’t sleep without it. I’m 76 years old.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Here’s some of my previous advice about taking a medication for sleep.
Amitryptiline is a medication that we prefer to avoid in older adults, due to its anticholinergic properties. It is commonly used at low doses for pain management, but over the longer term, it may contribute to unwanted side effects and may just stop working.
A good website with lots of information about sleep medications is this one, http://www.mysleepwell.ca.
Mike Davis says
After decades spent feeling tired all the time, and yawning all day, I finally submitted myself for a sleep study, fearing it might be sleep apnea. I was diagnosed with what they termed “sleep fragmentation”, frequently being almost awake and not spending enough time in restful sleep. My doctor suggested prescribing a sleep aid. I asked him if there was any danger of taking an OTC aid like Advil PM instead. He thought it should be fine. Since then I have slept much better, feel refreshed, and almost never yawn during the day. In short, I feel great! But reading your article makes me worry about long-term memory effects. I am 60 years old, not overweight, exercise regularly, and eat well. What’s my best option here?
Nicole Didyk, MD says
I’m not a sleep expert, but it sounds like your sleep issue is related to an irregular sleep-wake rhythm disorder, where there are periods of sleep and periods of wakefulness, but the sleep periods are never long enough to be truly restorative.
If I was seeing someone with this issue in my clinic, I would suggest trying melatonin, which is a hormone that we all produce, and is involved in circadian rhythm maintenance. A small dose like 0.5 to 10 mg nightly might be helpful in such a situation. Of course it’s also a good idea to look at caffeine consumption, napping patterns, screen and light exposure and other lifestyle factors.
Michael says
Hello doctor,
I am lying awake at 4am as I write this.
During the last 7-8 weeks my sleeping problem has worsened and now I wake every night about 3am or 4am or earlier and struggle to sleep again till about 7. I still go to bed usually before midnight.
I lost my job about the same time, but prior to this had sleep problems about one night in three. However what is for significant for me is that I’ve always rested and slept better when off work especially after about a week of adjustment but not now despite going on a 3 week holiday. What also stood out for me was that my bp was high (had not been an issue before) when I was off work and has taken a few weeks to normalise. Yet still I’m sleep deprived.
My doctor is more focussed on my history of anxiety, however I have managed a very stressful job in child protection for ten years and my sleep pattern has greatly changed this last two months.
I feel some physical symptoms need examining before anxiety or loss of my job is preferred as the root cause but my GP has been dismissive.
I notice I have something fleshy in the back of my throat that when I’ve done certain stretching feels like it’s blocking my airway, my stomach is much more tender and I’m noticing I’m experiencing more acid and bloating, my joints are considerably more painful especially around my pelvis, and I’ve notice my little fingers go numb frequently, I have also previously woken very sweaty and feeling physically frozen (about once or twice a week) but ironically thus has happened less during the last 9 months.
As I’ve been out of work for about 2 months I would expect with the reduction in work stress for my sleep to improve but significantly it has worsened. As a consequence my mood and motivation has dropped and some of my self support techniques such as meditation and exercise, reading and learning a new language are a big struggle to do and have dropped off a lot.
I do not use drugs or prescribed drugs but do drink alcohol regularly but only drink more than 4 units about once or twice a week.
How do you think I can get the help I need?
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Hi Michael and I’m sorry to hear about your difficulty sleeping. You don’t mention your age, and as a Geriatrician, I work with older adults most of the time. so if you’re in a younger age group, I might not have the expertise to answer your question.
If I were to see an older person with this constellation of symptoms in my office I’m not sure what would come to mind as a cause of all of the issues that you describe. I would want to do a complete physical examination and consider doing bloodwork, like checking thyroid function, complete blood count, and electrolytes, as well as some tests to look for inflammation or signs of a connective tissue disease (like an inflammatory arthritis).
I’m sorry that you’re not feeling heard in your doctor’s office, but it’s not surprising that they’re steering towards changes in mood as bring related to your sleep change. Insomnia with an early morning awakening pattern, reduced concentration, less interest in enjoyable activities, and even physical pain can be associated with depression, which goes hand in hand with anxiety for many people.
You also mention “only” drinking more than 4 drinks “once or twice a week”. For men, we recommend 14 drinks or less per week, and that the units be spread out over the week, rather than having a bit of a “binge” on one or two days. Alcohol consumption can interfere with sleep quality and depress mood, so that might be one lifestyle change to consider.
I would advise someone in your situation to continue to advocate with your family doctor, and I hope your persistence pays off.
Sirena says
I have chronic insomnia and I am taking lorazepam and mirtazapine I also have peripheral neuropathy I am tak8ng gabapentib and also suffered from RLS and I usually got to slepp ver late during rye nigh I have to wait until the legs stop moving. I found out that the Benadryl and the mirtazapine ggives thát condition I am using less Benadryl Ian’s no take at night I used for my allergies and I can’t be out of the mirtazapine for now. I understand de problem with the lorazepam and I am working to leave it, but right now the center and psychiatrist hasn’t offered me help to help me calm down my anxiety and they know I haven’t sleep no more than 3 hours at night for more than a year. I have to get out of that place but everything is close for the virus
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Sorry to hear about your struggles with restless legs syndrome (RLS). You’re correct that mirtazapine and antihistamines like Benadryl can exacerbate the RLS symptoms for some individuals.
Gabapentin is a medication that can be used for RLS, and it can be a complex disorder to treat, especially in a person who has other issues, like insomnia and anxiety.
Another thing to check with RLS is a person’s iron levels (usually measured as a blood ferritin level). Iron deficiency can be a cause of RLS and replenishing the iron ca help symptoms to resolve.
Stephen Simac says
The anecdotal evidence for magnesium supplements (at the correct dosage) reducing cramps and restless leg syndrome is extensive. It relieved mine and most people will have similar results, so wouldn’t place too much trust in “double blind studies” that are funded by pharmaceutical industry beneficiaries (as so many are, because who else can afford them?)
Of course kidney function is diminished in diabetics and the elderly, and they would have to be more careful about dosage, or rely on diet to increase blood levels, or reduce excretion.
Melatonin is helpful, .5 mg is the maximum that can be absorbed and effects only last about 4 hours. Can reuptake if you wake up and can’t get back to sleep. Benefits enhanced with 500 mg tryptophan about 1/2 hour before sleep.
Charles T. Tart says
A way to reduce some of the suffering from difficulties in sleeping.
Back in the 60s and 70s, I was one of the early researchers using EEG and rapid eye movements to study dreams during sleep. I, and pretty much all my colleagues, bought into the idea that a solid block of sleep, generally about 8 hours, was the standard for healthy sleep. The last few years it’s been argued that we’re culturally biased about this.
We’re products of the age of electrical lighting, which changed everything. For almost all of human history, just about everyone went to bed when it got dark, candles were a poor and expensive light source. But you’d see occasional references to “second sleep” in old writings. It was normal to go to bed shortly after dusk but to wake up in the middle of the night for an hour or so, maybe spend the time talking with a partner or doing some simple tasks that didn’t need bright light, then back to sleep. Some have theorized that this was brought about by our evolving on the plains of Africa. You needed a fire all through the night to keep away the predators who could eat you or your friends, so it was great to have a fair size group of people many of whom woke for an hour or so in the middle of the night. They could add fuel to and otherwise keep the fire from going out. More of these folks survived and reproduced, so this trait may have made it into our genes.
When I wake up in the middle of the night now and can’t get right back to sleep, I remember that I may be genetically programmed for this, it’s not a “problem,” it’s “normal,” even if not so useful for simple survival now. I generally do a crossword puzzle, without making the lights too bright. That satisfies my restless mind’s desire to do something, but it has no exciting continuity to it to get me too aroused. Then back to bed and sleep.
If you don’t think you have something terribly wrong with you, causing all sorts of worry and agitation, it’s easier to go back to sleep.
Charles T. Tart, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus, University of California at Davis.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
Thanks for sharing that story – you painted such a vivid picture of people sleeping around a fire on a savannah! You raise an excellent point about the natural rhythm of sleep, and the cyclical awakenings that are a part of a night’s rest. I think your suggestion of doing a quiet, dimly lit activity if sleep doesn’t return quickly is reasonable and I have had a few patients tell me they follow a similar practice.
Thanks again for your comment and for following Better Health While Aging.
Deborah says
Thank you for your articles. I find them very helpful. I am a 70 year old woman that had insomnia for 28 years (ever since menopause). One of my doctors finally convinced me to try Trazodone. I am sleeping almost every night (except when my PSA flares) for the first time. If someone’s doctor recommends Trazodone, I would encourage them to consider using it.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
I’m so glad that you found a routine that works for you.
As a Geriatrician, I have to add a word of caution about sleeping pills in general. If we look at the scientific evidence about using antidepressants like trazodone for insomnia, there is moderate evidence for a small effect of trazodone, when used in the short term. And unfortunately, all antidepressants can increase the risk of falls in older adults.
Whenever I suggest an antidepressant, for sleep or other symptoms, I always have a discussion about the risks and benefits, and other strategies that can help aside from medications.
Martha says
I became my mom’s primary caretaker four years ago. I was so fortunate to discover you at about the same time. Because of your emails and website, we changed doctors twice, removed all her medications but two, and added a few supplements. What we discovered was that her “dementia” and falls were caused by medication, poor nutrition, chronic UTIs, low sodium, hyponatremia and electrolyte imbalance. We also discovered that her beloved can of beer at the end of the day was one major cause of her low sodium. My sister is an NP but it was me who brought all this information to the discussion because of what i learned from you. Instead of being miserably and irresponsibly placed in a nursing home long ago, Mom is 83 and living her best life independently by gardening, going on walks, and helping others because of the geriatric specific information you share. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Nicole Didyk, MD says
What a wonderful story! Thanks so much for sharing it, and for your extremely kind comments.
Your description of the multiple factors contributing to the falls, and the role of lifestyle habits and medications in the health of older adults is a classic Geriatrics story!
Please give yourself credit for being proactive in looking for information and help, and for turning to a credible source like Better Health While Aging! I’m so glad that your mom is enjoying life and wish your family all the best!